| Location | Halifax |
| Age | 7 years |
| Cause of Death | Road Traffic Collision |
| Date of Birth | 22/09/1989 |
| Date of Death | 25/08/1997 |
| Visitors | 10,081 since 19/12/2007 |
| Creator |
ben was knoked down and killed by a double deker bus while he was riding is bike what he only had
two days he was on live support for four days the doctors said were the bus had hit him on his head
he had a fractured skull bleeding a clot and some brain damage but thay didnt no how much but one
doctor give us hope he was a strong lad he would pull throw but on the 25 of august at half past one
in the morning is little heart had stopped his dad was with him as a nurse had told me to have a
rest in anouther room as i hadent had much rest also i was exspecting a new baby when i went into
the room there were a lot of doctors and nurses around him but one nurse said to me ben was holding
on untill i wasent there becouse he know how upset i would be thay did lots of tests on him then a
nurse called jane who we got to know very well she was lovely came to us by then a lot of our family
were there and i know by her face it wasent good news she told us that ben was brain dead and there
was nothing els thay could do could thay have our permision to switch of is life support i think it
is the hardist thing a parent as to do me and is dad held ben untill the angels came down for him it
was is brother and sisters birthday that day it is a day i can never forget sadly gareth whos
birthday it was went to be with ben 22 months after i realy think gareth is looking after ben a part
of me went with them the day god took them home i will always love and miss you both love your heart
broken mom xxxxxxxx
IM MISSING YOU SO MUCH BEN A PART OF ME WENT WITH YOU THE DAY YOU FELL ASLEEP I WILL LOVE YOU ALWAYS
HOPE YOU ARE BEEN GOOD FOR GARETH AND GRANDMA FOR ME I MISS YOU ALL SO MUCH LOVE MOM XXXXXXXX
PLEASE READ
IM SO SORRY THAT I HAVE NOT BEEN ON SITE FOR THE LAST FEW DAYS BUT IM NOT FEELING TO WELL WITH IT
BEING MY MOMS ANGEL DAY LAST THURSDAY AND BENS BIRTHDAY PLEASE DONT THINK I HAVE FORGOT ANY OF YOU
MY FRIENDS OR YOUR ANGELS I JUST CARNT COPE AT THE MOMENT AND THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR BEING THERE FOR
MY MOM GARETH AND BEN ITS NICE TO NO THAY ARE NOT LEFT ON THERE OWN GOD BLESS YOU ALL ALWAYS IM
SENDING ALL MY LOVE ALWAYS ALISON XXXXXX
HI BEN
I DONT NO REALLY HOW TO START BUT I MISS YOU SO MUCH I ONLY WISH I COULD HAVE ONE DAY WITH YOU AND
TELL YOU HOW MUCH I LOVE YOU I NEVER GOT THE CHANCE WHEN YOU HAD YOUR ACCIDENT NO ONE WOULD LET ME
NEAR YOU IN THE ROAD WHEN YOU WAS AWAKE I WANTED TO TELL YOU SO MUCH BUT I NEVER GOT THE CHANCE
PEOPLE THOUGHT THAY WAS DOING GOOD KEEPING YOU AWAY FROM ME WHY I WAS YOUR MOMMY AND I WANTERD TO
MAKE YOU BETTER IV BOUGHT YOU SOME LOVELY FLOWERS FOR YOUR GRAVE I HOPE YOU LIKE THEM IV MISSED
BEYING YOU PRESENTS ON YOUR BIRTHDAYS AND WHY DID GARETH GO AND DO WHAT HE DID AND LEAVE ME I HOPE
HES LOOKING AFTER YOU WITH GRANDMA THERES NEVER A DAY WHEN I NEVER THINK ABOUT YOU ALL I ONLY WISH I
COULD TURN BACK TIME ANYWAY BEN HAPPY BIRTHDAY AND I HOPE IT IS SPECIAL ONE IM SENDING LOADS OF LOVE
AND HUGS UP TO YOU TODAY LOVE ALWAYS MOMMY XXXXXXXXXX
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I would like to thank everyone for all the candles, tributes & pictures that are left on Christopher's website they are all very much appreciated.
Tributes For Week Starting 23rd November
FOR MONDAY
The best and most beautiful
Things in the world cannot
Be seen or even touched.
They must be felt with the heart.
FOR TUESDAY
Gone yet not forgotten,
Although we are apart,
Your spirit lives within me,
Forever in my heart.
FOR WEDNESDAY
A gift for such a little while,
Your loss just seems so wrong,
You should not have left before us,
It’s with loved ones you belong.
FOR THURSDAY
Perhaps they are not
Stars in the sky,
But rather openings
Where our loved ones shine down
To let us know they are happy.
FOR FRIDAY
The Watcher
They always leaned to watch for us
Anxious if we were late,
In winter by the window,
In summer by the gate.
And though we mocked them tenderly
Who had such foolish care,
The long way home would seem more safe,
Because they waited there.
Their thoughts were all so full of us,
They never could forget,
And so I think that where they are
They must be watching yet.
Waiting ‘til we come home to them
Anxious if we are late
Watching from Heaven’s window
Leaning from Heaven’s gate.
FOR SATURDAY
As We Look Back
As we look back over time
We find ourselves wondering .....
Did we remember to thank you enough
For all you have done for us?
For all the times you were by our sides
To help and support us .....
To celebrate our successes
To understand our problems
And accept our defeats?
Or for teaching us by your example,
The value of hard work, good judgement,
Courage and integrity?
We wonder if we ever thanked you
For the sacrifices you made.
To let us have the very best?
And for the simple things
Like laughter, smiles and times we shared?
If we have forgotten to show our
Gratitude enough for all the things you did,
We're thanking you now.
And we are hoping you knew all along,
How much you meant to us.
FOR SUNDAY
To Those Whom I Love and Those Who Love Me
When I am gone, release me, let me go
I have so many things to see and do
You must not tie yourself to me with tears
Be happy that I have had so many years
I gave you my love, you can only guess
How much you gave me in happiness
I think you for the love each have shown
But now it is time I traveled on alone
So grieve a while for me, if grieve you must
Then let your grief be comforted by trust
It is only for a while that we must part
So bless the memoriss in your heart
I will not be far away, for life goes on
So if you need me, call and I will come
Though you can not see or touch me, I will be near
And if you listen with your heart, you will hear
All of my love around you soft and clear
Then, when you must come this way alone
I will greet you with a smile and a
"Welcome Home"
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Thoughts Today, Memories Forever
Angela Christopher’s Very Proud Mum
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I would like to thank everyone for all the candles, tributes & pictures that are left on Christopher's website they are all very much appreciated.
Tributes For Week Starting 23rd November
FOR MONDAY
The best and most beautiful
Things in the world cannot
Be seen or even touched.
They must be felt with the heart.
FOR TUESDAY
Gone yet not forgotten,
Although we are apart,
Your spirit lives within me,
Forever in my heart.
FOR WEDNESDAY
A gift for such a little while,
Your loss just seems so wrong,
You should not have left before us,
It’s with loved ones you belong.
FOR THURSDAY
Perhaps they are not
Stars in the sky,
But rather openings
Where our loved ones shine down
To let us know they are happy.
FOR FRIDAY
The Watcher
They always leaned to watch for us
Anxious if we were late,
In winter by the window,
In summer by the gate.
And though we mocked them tenderly
Who had such foolish care,
The long way home would seem more safe,
Because they waited there.
Their thoughts were all so full of us,
They never could forget,
And so I think that where they are
They must be watching yet.
Waiting ‘til we come home to them
Anxious if we are late
Watching from Heaven’s window
Leaning from Heaven’s gate.
FOR SATURDAY
As We Look Back
As we look back over time
We find ourselves wondering .....
Did we remember to thank you enough
For all you have done for us?
For all the times you were by our sides
To help and support us .....
To celebrate our successes
To understand our problems
And accept our defeats?
Or for teaching us by your example,
The value of hard work, good judgement,
Courage and integrity?
We wonder if we ever thanked you
For the sacrifices you made.
To let us have the very best?
And for the simple things
Like laughter, smiles and times we shared?
If we have forgotten to show our
Gratitude enough for all the things you did,
We're thanking you now.
And we are hoping you knew all along,
How much you meant to us.
FOR SUNDAY
To Those Whom I Love and Those Who Love Me
When I am gone, release me, let me go
I have so many things to see and do
You must not tie yourself to me with tears
Be happy that I have had so many years
I gave you my love, you can only guess
How much you gave me in happiness
I think you for the love each have shown
But now it is time I traveled on alone
So grieve a while for me, if grieve you must
Then let your grief be comforted by trust
It is only for a while that we must part
So bless the memoriss in your heart
I will not be far away, for life goes on
So if you need me, call and I will come
Though you can not see or touch me, I will be near
And if you listen with your heart, you will hear
All of my love around you soft and clear
Then, when you must come this way alone
I will greet you with a smile and a
"Welcome Home"
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Thoughts Today, Memories Forever
Angela Christopher’s Very Proud Mum
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TO US ALL YOU ARE SO SPECIAL♥
WHAT ELSE IS THERE TO SAY♥
EXCEPT WE WISH WITH ALL OUR HEARTS♥
THAT YOU WAS HERE TO-DAY♥
♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥
LOVE AS ALWAYS ALISON
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Beautiful memories are wonderful things,
They last through the longest day
They never wear out, they never get lost,
And can never be taken away.
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☆ ¸.•* ☆ *•.¸Sending extra love today because I won’t be in to see you until Monday. Madison and I are going away for a few days .... so lots of love for today ♥♥♥ for tomorrow ♥ ♥♥ and for the weekend ☆ ¸.•* ☆ *•.God bless ☆ ¸.•* ☆ *•.
TRIBUTE FOR 19-11-09
♥*•♥ One Gift♥*•♥
One gift, above all others
God gives to us to treasure
One that knows no time, no place
And one gold cannot measure
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The precious, poignant tender gift
Of Memory...that will keep
Of dear ones ever in our hearts
Although God gives them sleep
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It brings back long remembered things
A song, a word, a smile
And the world's a better place
...because
We had them for awhile!
♥•*♥*•♥^♥• *♥*•♥
TRIBUTE FOR 20-11-09
The pain we feel inside today
Is the pain we try to hide,
For no one will ever know
The tears i cry inside.
♥•*♥*•♥^♥• *♥*•♥
It seems like only yesterday
The wound is still so sore.
For every hour of every day
We miss you more and more
For you are someone special
And think the world of you.
♥•*♥*•♥^♥• *♥*•♥
TRIBUTE FOR 21-11-09
Missing You
♥•*♥*•♥^♥• *♥*•♥
I just can't believe it
The sun still sets and rises.
The moon and stars still shine.
The flowers still bloom,
The birds still sing.
I expected a change in everything...
♥•*♥*•♥^♥• *♥*•♥
I just can't believe it.
It still gets dark and light.
The ocean still has waves,
The rain still rains,
The wind still blows.
Is it because they do not know?
♥•*♥*•♥^♥• *♥*•♥
I just can't believe it.
I thought the world would stop,
When in the house I found
An empty chair,
A missing smile.
I thought it would stop
For just a while.
I just can't believe it....
♥•*♥*•♥^♥• *♥*•♥
TRIBUTE FOR 22-11-09
♥•*♥*•♥^♥• *♥*•♥
You gave us love
And lots more,
We have so much
To thank you for,
Silent thoughts,
Memories deep,
Locked in our hearts
For ever to keep.
♥•*♥*•♥^♥• *♥*•♥
♥•*♥*•♥^♥• *♥*•♥
I wish you all a very peaceful weekend my friend
With love as always Linda.xxx
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Tributes For Week Starting 16th November
FOR MONDAY
Sadly missed along life's way,
Quietly remembered every day,
No longer in our life to share,
But in our hearts you’re always there.
FOR TUESDAY
I sit and wonder every day,
Why the Lord chose to call you away,
I think He saw you needed rest,
He only takes the very best.
FOR WEDNESDAY
Everyday in some small way,
Memories of you come our way,
Though absent, you are always near,
Still missed, loved, always dear.
FOR THURSDAY
Resting where no shadows fall,
In peaceful sleep he awaits us all;
God will link the broken chain,
When one by one we meet again.
FOR FRIDAY
Surrounded by friends
Yet all alone
The one I loved
God has called home
The hugs of friends
Helps ease the pain
And I know my loss
Is my loved one's gain
But tears now flow
Across my face
As I long for just
One more embrace
Then comfort comes
And I see Christ's face
He hugs my loved one
And I feel God's grace.
FOR SATURDAY
Please don't sing sad songs for me,
Forget your grief and fears,
For I am in a perfect place
Away from pain and tears...
It's far away from hunger
And hurt and want and pride,
I have a place in Heaven
With the Master at my side.
My life on earth was very good,
As earthly life can go,
But Paradise is so much more
Than anyone can know..
.
My heart is filled with happiness
And sweet rejoicing, too.
To walk with God is perfect peace,
A joy forever new.
FOR SUNDAY
When I come to the end of the day
And the sun has set for me,
I want no rites in a gloom-filled room
Why cry for a soul set free?
Miss me a little, but not too long
And not with your head bowed low.
Remember the love we once shared,
Miss me but let me go.
For this is a journey we all must take
And each must go alone.
It's all a part of the maker's plan,
A step on the road to home.
When you are lonely and sick at heart,
Go to the friends we know,
And bury your sorrows in doing good deeds -
Miss me, but let me go.
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Thoughts Today, Memories Forever
Angela Christopher’s Very Proud Mum
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♥
♥ 15TH NOVEMBER 2009 ♥
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It's Sunday again and the days pass so fast,
But my love for you will always last.
The days go by in such a blur,
Oh I wish that you were here.
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Days turn into months..
Months turn into years..
I still love you with all my heart..
And only wish we never had to part.
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It's Sunday again and there is not a sound,
Theres not even many people walking around.
For Sunday you see is a day of rest..
You should know my angel..
Because you are the best.
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So my darling angel I just want to say...
Have a peaceful Sunday in heaven today.
And remember it's not just on a Sunday I love and miss you..
I love and miss you every day of the week too.
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SENDING YOU SUNDAY BLESSINGS, MAY YOU HAVE A
PEACEFUL DAY, LOVE JUDE. X X
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copyright ~ Jackie Thomas 14/06/09.
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The Precious Child I Knew
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A child is such a wonderous gift
And I thank the Lord for you
For knowing such a special child
For the love and joy we knew
Although your'e no longer with me
Precious memories live on in my heart
And in my mind it is clear
That one day we won't be apart
I know we'll be together again
When my time on earth is through
Until then I'll hold a memory close
Of the precious child I knew
Copyright© Ingrid Aspey 15/11/09
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Waiting at the Door
I can’t explain so deep inside
The very fabric of my soul
Only a heart that grieves such loss
Can ever truly understand
It’s like you’re waiting at the door
Until a loved one comes back home
You feel a longing in your heart
When they appear the longing stops
But in a loss that never ends
You’re always standing at that door
You feel the longing in the breeze
So incomplete and never filled
I cannot find the words to say
Just what it’s like to want forever
Never seeing them again
Just always waiting at the door
*~~* God Chose You *~~*
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God chose you for an angel
He must have needed you
Now every day till we meet again
We'll go on missing you
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Now all we have left are memories
Of the time when you were here
And every day till we meet again
We'll hold those memories dear
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God chose you for an angel
To watch over us below
So remember my sweet angel
How much we love you so
copyright© Ingrid Aspey 15/11/09
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