| Location | Halifax |
| Age | 7 years |
| Cause of Death | Road Traffic Collision |
| Date of Birth | 22/09/1989 |
| Date of Death | 25/08/1997 |
| Visitors | 9,797 since 19/12/2007 |
| Creator |
ben was knoked down and killed by a double deker bus while he was riding is bike what he only had
two days he was on live support for four days the doctors said were the bus had hit him on his head
he had a fractured skull bleeding a clot and some brain damage but thay didnt no how much but one
doctor give us hope he was a strong lad he would pull throw but on the 25 of august at half past one
in the morning is little heart had stopped his dad was with him as a nurse had told me to have a
rest in anouther room as i hadent had much rest also i was exspecting a new baby when i went into
the room there were a lot of doctors and nurses around him but one nurse said to me ben was holding
on untill i wasent there becouse he know how upset i would be thay did lots of tests on him then a
nurse called jane who we got to know very well she was lovely came to us by then a lot of our family
were there and i know by her face it wasent good news she told us that ben was brain dead and there
was nothing els thay could do could thay have our permision to switch of is life support i think it
is the hardist thing a parent as to do me and is dad held ben untill the angels came down for him it
was is brother and sisters birthday that day it is a day i can never forget sadly gareth whos
birthday it was went to be with ben 22 months after i realy think gareth is looking after ben a part
of me went with them the day god took them home i will always love and miss you both love your heart
broken mom xxxxxxxx
IM MISSING YOU SO MUCH BEN A PART OF ME WENT WITH YOU THE DAY YOU FELL ASLEEP I WILL LOVE YOU ALWAYS
HOPE YOU ARE BEEN GOOD FOR GARETH AND GRANDMA FOR ME I MISS YOU ALL SO MUCH LOVE MOM XXXXXXXX
PLEASE READ
IM SO SORRY THAT I HAVE NOT BEEN ON SITE FOR THE LAST FEW DAYS BUT IM NOT FEELING TO WELL WITH IT
BEING MY MOMS ANGEL DAY LAST THURSDAY AND BENS BIRTHDAY PLEASE DONT THINK I HAVE FORGOT ANY OF YOU
MY FRIENDS OR YOUR ANGELS I JUST CARNT COPE AT THE MOMENT AND THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR BEING THERE FOR
MY MOM GARETH AND BEN ITS NICE TO NO THAY ARE NOT LEFT ON THERE OWN GOD BLESS YOU ALL ALWAYS IM
SENDING ALL MY LOVE ALWAYS ALISON XXXXXX
HI BEN
I DONT NO REALLY HOW TO START BUT I MISS YOU SO MUCH I ONLY WISH I COULD HAVE ONE DAY WITH YOU AND
TELL YOU HOW MUCH I LOVE YOU I NEVER GOT THE CHANCE WHEN YOU HAD YOUR ACCIDENT NO ONE WOULD LET ME
NEAR YOU IN THE ROAD WHEN YOU WAS AWAKE I WANTED TO TELL YOU SO MUCH BUT I NEVER GOT THE CHANCE
PEOPLE THOUGHT THAY WAS DOING GOOD KEEPING YOU AWAY FROM ME WHY I WAS YOUR MOMMY AND I WANTERD TO
MAKE YOU BETTER IV BOUGHT YOU SOME LOVELY FLOWERS FOR YOUR GRAVE I HOPE YOU LIKE THEM IV MISSED
BEYING YOU PRESENTS ON YOUR BIRTHDAYS AND WHY DID GARETH GO AND DO WHAT HE DID AND LEAVE ME I HOPE
HES LOOKING AFTER YOU WITH GRANDMA THERES NEVER A DAY WHEN I NEVER THINK ABOUT YOU ALL I ONLY WISH I
COULD TURN BACK TIME ANYWAY BEN HAPPY BIRTHDAY AND I HOPE IT IS SPECIAL ONE IM SENDING LOADS OF LOVE
AND HUGS UP TO YOU TODAY LOVE ALWAYS MOMMY XXXXXXXXXX
A MOTHERS LOVE
I didn't have to look into your eyes
to fall in love with you,
I didn't have to hear you cry
to know you loved me too,
I didn't need to hold your hand
to cherish you always,
Within my womb we shared our hearts.
You touched my soul,
You sweetened my spirit,
You gave me memories i will always hold so very dear.
Yes my heart aches since you departed so soon,
But a mothers love does not end with death,
For you are my child,
My love is forever yours.
TRIBUTE FOR THURSDAY 5.11.09
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The size of sadness
Can you measure our pain?
It reaches the stars and back again
Can you count our tears?
They are as many as winter rain
Can you weigh our emptiness?
The world and more would come to less
With no hope of sun tomorrow
That's how we see our sorrow
Add all together -The size of sadness
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TRIBUTE FOR FRIDAY 6.11.09.
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Having you not with me
Hurts more and more each day
Although I feel a closeness
In a very special way
Even as I go to sleep
Every thought is of you
And I never thought i'd miss you
In quite the way I do
So i'm hoping that these words
May some how let you know
That you're in my heart forever
And i'll always love you so
The one and only thing
That helps me with the pain
Is dreaming of the time
When I will see you once again...
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TRIBUTE FOR SATURDAY 07.1109
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My love is with you
Oh What can I say?
My heart is empty without you each and every day.
The Angel wings you wear must be so grand,
if only I could reach out and touch your hand,
maybe then we could say goodbye,
which would help dry the tears that I cry
Now I know that’s impossible for us to do,
so let’s make a deal just you and me.
When I look to the stars at night,
you look for me with all your might,
when you see me just shine real bright,
together we can send our love
and say Good Night.
I would like to wish you all a very good weekend and God Bless all our Angels and all our BRAVE HERO'S who have Lost Their Lives.
With love as always Linda.xxx
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Tributes For Week Starting 2nd November
FOR MONDAY
There's a special kind of feeling,
That's meant for you alone,
A special place within our hearts,
That only you can own.
FOR TUESDAY
If only prayers were answered,
& wishes did come true,
Our only wishes with all our hearts,
Would be to still have you
FOR WEDNESDAY
We send this special message
To the heavens up above
Please take care of our precious angels
And give them all our love
FOR THURSDAY
I lit a candle for you today
May it's light reflect my love your way
Now I must go until next time
I will forever keep you, gently on my mind
FOR FRIDAY
Angels
When you were born, an angel smiled,
As you became a child, an angel sat on your shoulder
When you became an adult, an angel held your hand
As you grew old, an angel walked down the road with you,
And, when you died, another angel got their wings.
FOR SATURDAY
Letter From Heaven
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
But first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said,
"I welcome you."
It's good to have you back again; you were missed
While you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man."
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
Remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
FOR SUNDAY
Reply to "Letter from Heaven"
My Dearest Loved one:
I received your Letter from Heaven,
It made the teardrops fall.
But knowing you’re with God above,
Sweet memories, I will recall.
I know that you are with me,
For I feel your presence near.
And if I listen closely,
Your voice I then can hear.
I know you’re watching o’er me,
As you promised you would do.
And when I feel so saddened,
It’s your letter that sees me through.
When I lay in bed at night,
The day’s chores put to flight,
I truly feel your presence,
Like a warm and glowing light.
The rocky roads you mentioned,
And the hills that I must climb;
I’ve done exactly what you said,
By taking one day at a time.
I’ve tried to help others,
Who are in sorrow and in pain.
And now I am contented,
My day was not in vain.
I’ll lend a hand, as you have said
When someone is feeling low.
I’ll pray for them and be here,
‘Till on their way they go.
And when it’s time for me to go,
To join you in heaven high.
My wings I shall spread wide,
To my home up in the sky.
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Thoughts Today, Memories Forever
Angela Christopher's Very Proud Mum
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♥ Imagine ♥
♥ Imagine a desert
♥ without sand
♥ Imagine an arm
♥ without a hand
♥ Imagine a butterfly
♥ without wings
♥ Imagine winter without
♥ the promise of spring
♥ Imagine night without
♥ the arrival of dawn
♥ Imagine a life spent
♥ being just a pawn
♥ Image a soul
♥ that never connects
♥ Imagine a world
♥ that always rejects
♥ Imagine eyes that
♥ do not see
♥ Imagine knowing
♥ it can never be...
♥ Imagine a touch that
♥ does not feel
♥ Imagine a heart
♥ made out of steel
♥ Imagine a body
♥ that does not yield
♥ Imagine life’s storms
♥ without a human shield
♥ Imagine a tear
♥ that never cries
♥ Imagine an ache
♥ that never dies
♥ Impossible to imagine….
♥ It’s life without you!
♥ Copyright© Mary Thong-Garner ♥
♥ Love ♥ Always ♥ Mary xxxxx ♥
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Somewhere beyond the sunset,
where happiness never dies,
you live in a beautiful garden,
above the clear blue skies,
although we cannot see you,
you’re with us every day,
and all the love we have for you,
will never fade away.
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LOVE ALWAYS,Joyce.XXX
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Thibutes For Week Starting 26th October
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FOR MONDAY
In our hearts your memory lingers,
Sweetly tender, fond and true,
There is not a day, dear Loved One
That we do not think of you.
FOR TUESDAY
Nothing can ever take away
The love a heart holds dear.
Fond memories linger every day
Remembrance keeps them near.
FOR WEDNESDAY
Looking back with memories,
Upon the path you trod,
We bless the hours we had with you,
And leave the rest with God.
FOR THURSDAY
Those we love we never lose,
For always they will be,
Loved, remembered, treasured,
Always in our memory.
FOR FRIDAY
Memories Of Me
I’d like the memory of me
To be a happy one,
I’d like to leave an afterglow
Of smiles when life is done..
I’d like to leave an echo
Whispering softly down the ways,
Of happy times and laughing times
And bright and sunny days.
I’d like the tears of those who grieve,
To dry before the sun,
Of happy memories that I leave behind
When life is done.
FOR SATURDAY
Separated For Now
Although death has separated us physically,
Faith and love have bound us eternally.
Though we cannot see you,
We know you are here.
Though we cannot touch you,
We feel the warmth of your smile,
As we begin a new chapter in our lives.
Today we pause to reflect upon
Those who have shaped our character,
Molded our spirits and touched our hearts.
May the lighting of this candle be a
Reminder of the memories we have shared,
A representation of the everlasting
Impact you have made upon our lives.
FOR SUNDAY
A Special Gift
You were a gift sent straight from Heaven.
Given to us from God above.
We didn't know how much you would teach us
About the meaning of true love...
For true love sometimes means letting go
Of someone precious and dear.
That is what we were forced to do...
Although we wanted to keep you here!!!
However, this is quite a selfish wish.
One we know we should ignore...
But, sweet Angel, we truly do believe
That God must have needed you more...
Perhaps to be an Angel now,
Full of wisdom and love...
Watching over those of us who love you
From the shining stars above.
We miss you more than you can know.
You will never be replaced...
In our hearts and memories forever,
Will be your sweet and innocent sleeping face.
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Thoughts Today, Memories Forever
Angela Christopher’s Very Proud Mum
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thinking of you today and every day ;;;
love Alison
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Hello Beautiful ANgel Ben
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♥ღ♥ I Believe ♥ღ♥
I believe that the sun shines after the rain
I believe if you don't get hurt you'll never gain
I believe in not doing things the easy way
I believe that being selfish doesn’t pay
♥ღ♥
I believe in a second chance
I believe in a life long romance
I believe there is life after death
And standing up to a life of mess
♥ღ♥
I believe in love at first sight
I believe that revenge isn’t right
I believe that first impressions last
And there is nothing better then a good laugh
♥ღ♥
I believe that dreams do come true
I believe there's destiny for me and you
I believe that good things come to those who wait
I believe love never arrives too late
♥ღ♥
I believe something good comes from something bad
I believe that for tears of happiness there are tears of sad
I believe everyone has a guardian angel
And the good you do will be rewarded well
♥ღ♥
I believe sometimes there is no explanation
I believe money can't buy people's affection
I believe you don't know what you've got until it's gone
I believe a new day arrives with every dawn
♥ღ♥
I believe a smile can be contagious
I believe in being very outrageous
I believe in living with no regrets
I believe that life is as good as it gets
♥ღ♥
I believe that God watches over us
I believe the little things are worth the fuss
I believe you have each friend for a reason
I believe you will get punished for treason
♥ღ♥
I believe that what comes first is family
I believe we should all live in harmony
I believe in making the most of a beautiful day
And it's not the end until everything's okay
♥ღ♥
I believe absence makes the heart grow fonder
I believe you will lose if you sit and wonder
I believe every experience teaches you a lesson
And nothing cures better then a drinking session
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I believe everyone has one true love
I believe sometimes we need a little shove
I believe the whole world is a stage
I believe we only get better with age
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I believe that to learn you have to live
I believe that to love someone you have to give
I believe one moment can change your life
And there's still help when you’re in strife
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I believe everyone has one true friend
I believe love helps a broken heart mend
I believe in the power of a song
And things will change before too long
♥ღ♥
I believe living is the best experience
I believe in not laughing at other people’s expense
I believe it’s hard to watch a lover leave
And when they’re gone all you can do is breath
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I believe to always look on the bright side
I believe that life is just one big ride
I believe when I die people will grieve
But it’s ok because I believe…
♥ღ♥ By Kayla Neil ♥ღ♥
♥Love ♥ Always ♥ Mary xxx ♥
Good Morning Beautiful ANgel Ben
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One gift, above all others,
God gives to us to treasure--
One that knows no time, no place;
One that gold can't measure—
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The precious, poignant, tender gift
of Memory--for it keeps
Our dear ones ever in our hearts,
Though they have gone to sleep.
~♥x♥~
It brings back long remembered things--
A song, a word, a smile--
And the world's a better place because
We had them for a while!
♥Author Unknown
♥ Love ♥ Always ♥ Mary xxx♥
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Good Morning Beautiful Angel Ben
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~♥x♥~ Missing You ~♥x♥~
I just can't believe it
The sun still sets and rises
The moon and stars still shine
The flowers still bloom
The birds still sing
I expected a change in everything...
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I just can't believe it
It still gets dark and light
The ocean still has waves
The rain still rains
The wind still blows
Is it because they do not know?
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I just can't believe it.
I thought the world would stop
When in the house I found
An empty chair
A missing smile
I thought it would stop
For just a while
I just can't believe it....
~♥x♥~ Unknown author
♥ Love ♥ Always ♥ Mary xxx ♥
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