| Location | Halifax |
| Age | 7 years |
| Cause of Death | Road Traffic Collision |
| Date of Birth | 22/09/1989 |
| Date of Death | 25/08/1997 |
| Visitors | 10,113 since 19/12/2007 |
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ben was knoked down and killed by a double deker bus while he was riding is bike what he only had
two days he was on live support for four days the doctors said were the bus had hit him on his head
he had a fractured skull bleeding a clot and some brain damage but thay didnt no how much but one
doctor give us hope he was a strong lad he would pull throw but on the 25 of august at half past one
in the morning is little heart had stopped his dad was with him as a nurse had told me to have a
rest in anouther room as i hadent had much rest also i was exspecting a new baby when i went into
the room there were a lot of doctors and nurses around him but one nurse said to me ben was holding
on untill i wasent there becouse he know how upset i would be thay did lots of tests on him then a
nurse called jane who we got to know very well she was lovely came to us by then a lot of our family
were there and i know by her face it wasent good news she told us that ben was brain dead and there
was nothing els thay could do could thay have our permision to switch of is life support i think it
is the hardist thing a parent as to do me and is dad held ben untill the angels came down for him it
was is brother and sisters birthday that day it is a day i can never forget sadly gareth whos
birthday it was went to be with ben 22 months after i realy think gareth is looking after ben a part
of me went with them the day god took them home i will always love and miss you both love your heart
broken mom xxxxxxxx
IM MISSING YOU SO MUCH BEN A PART OF ME WENT WITH YOU THE DAY YOU FELL ASLEEP I WILL LOVE YOU ALWAYS
HOPE YOU ARE BEEN GOOD FOR GARETH AND GRANDMA FOR ME I MISS YOU ALL SO MUCH LOVE MOM XXXXXXXX
PLEASE READ
IM SO SORRY THAT I HAVE NOT BEEN ON SITE FOR THE LAST FEW DAYS BUT IM NOT FEELING TO WELL WITH IT
BEING MY MOMS ANGEL DAY LAST THURSDAY AND BENS BIRTHDAY PLEASE DONT THINK I HAVE FORGOT ANY OF YOU
MY FRIENDS OR YOUR ANGELS I JUST CARNT COPE AT THE MOMENT AND THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR BEING THERE FOR
MY MOM GARETH AND BEN ITS NICE TO NO THAY ARE NOT LEFT ON THERE OWN GOD BLESS YOU ALL ALWAYS IM
SENDING ALL MY LOVE ALWAYS ALISON XXXXXX
HI BEN
I DONT NO REALLY HOW TO START BUT I MISS YOU SO MUCH I ONLY WISH I COULD HAVE ONE DAY WITH YOU AND
TELL YOU HOW MUCH I LOVE YOU I NEVER GOT THE CHANCE WHEN YOU HAD YOUR ACCIDENT NO ONE WOULD LET ME
NEAR YOU IN THE ROAD WHEN YOU WAS AWAKE I WANTED TO TELL YOU SO MUCH BUT I NEVER GOT THE CHANCE
PEOPLE THOUGHT THAY WAS DOING GOOD KEEPING YOU AWAY FROM ME WHY I WAS YOUR MOMMY AND I WANTERD TO
MAKE YOU BETTER IV BOUGHT YOU SOME LOVELY FLOWERS FOR YOUR GRAVE I HOPE YOU LIKE THEM IV MISSED
BEYING YOU PRESENTS ON YOUR BIRTHDAYS AND WHY DID GARETH GO AND DO WHAT HE DID AND LEAVE ME I HOPE
HES LOOKING AFTER YOU WITH GRANDMA THERES NEVER A DAY WHEN I NEVER THINK ABOUT YOU ALL I ONLY WISH I
COULD TURN BACK TIME ANYWAY BEN HAPPY BIRTHDAY AND I HOPE IT IS SPECIAL ONE IM SENDING LOADS OF LOVE
AND HUGS UP TO YOU TODAY LOVE ALWAYS MOMMY XXXXXXXXXX
My Dear Family xx
It's me again from Heaven
With a message from above
Feel my spirit all around you
As I sprinkle you with love...
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I have watched you, as your tears flow
I have heard your silent screams
I know you sleep with visions
Of me visiting your dreams...
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I have come and sat beside you
Placed my hands upon your face
Wiped away the many teardrops
I so wish I could erase...
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I have watched you every day now
Seen such pain within your eyes
I just wish that there were some way
I could help you realise...
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I am happy up in Heaven
In this peaceful loving place
Where I will be here waiting
To welcome you with my embrace...
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You will join me here in Heaven
When your time comes you’ll see
Leave your Earthly cares behind you
Travel on to where you’re free...
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I have heard you ask to go now
But there is more for you to do
I promise I'll be waiting
When your time on earth is through ...
Good Morning Beautiful Angel Ben
♥HX♥HX♥HX♥HX♥HX♥HX♥HX♥
♥HX♥ As Long As ♥HX♥
As long as I can dream
As long as I can think
As long I have memory…
I will love you
♥HX♥HX♥HX♥HX♥HX♥HX♥HX♥
As long as I have eyes to see
and ears to hear
and lips to speak
I will love you
♥HX♥HX♥HX♥HX♥HX♥HX♥HX♥
As long as I have a heart to feel
a soul stirring with in
An imagination to hold you...
I will love you
♥HX♥HX♥HX♥HX♥HX♥HX♥HX♥
As long as there is time
As long there is love
As long as I have a breath
to speak your name...
Because I love you more than anything...
In all the world
♥HX♥HX♥HX♥HX♥HX♥HX♥HX♥
♥ Unknown
♥HX♥ Love Always ♥HX♥ Mary ♥HX♥
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Good Morning Beautiful ANgel Ben
♥ Light a Candle
♥ Light a candle for those we mourn.
♥ Into a new life they will be born
♥ Do not look for them at the gravesite
♥ They are somewhere else radiating their beautiful light
♥They have gone to a new world
♥ Where there is no darkness, no pain
♥ Their light and essence will always remain
♥ Light a candle for those who have left this mortal place
♥ They are free to travel through time and space
♥ When we think of them, they are near
♥ When we sit in a beautiful garden.
♥ Their voices we hear
♥ When we listen to a divine symphony
♥ We close our eyes, their faces we see
♥ Light a candle for they have not really gone
♥ With each flickering flame
♥ In your hearts they will always belong
♥ Unknown
♥ Love ♥ Always ♥ Mary X ♥
~ Immeasurable (by Sean Ashcroft) ~
Laughter will still sound,
even though you’re gone.
But the decibels will dip,
with some smiles, painted on.
Hopes will still soar,
dreams float on high.
But the altitude will drop,
as will the supply.
Passion will still drive us,
desire wave us off.
But the revs will decline
and the engine might cough.
Time will be bejewelled,
lives lit by waltzing light.
But the carats will diminish,
its brilliance a lesser sight.
Yet memories have no volume,
love no mass nor weight.
These will broaden, widen, deepen,
a true measure of something great.
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love as always Alison ♥
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Tributes For This Week 12th October
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FOR MONDAY
Our thoughts are ever with you
Though you have passed away.
And those who loved you dearly
Are thinking of you today.
FOR TUESDAY
Everyday in some small way
Memories of you come our way.
Though absent, you are always near
Still missed, loved and always dear.
FOR WEDNESDAY
We can't have old days back
When we were all together.
But secret tears and loving thoughts
Will be with us forever.
FOR THURSDAY
Thank you for loving and sharing,
For giving and for caring.
God bless you and keep you,
Until we meet again.
FOR FRIDAY
God saw you getting tired
And a cure was not to be.
So he put his arms around you
And whispered "Come to Me".
A golden heart stopped beating,
Hard working hands now rest.
God broke our hearts to prove to us
He only takes the best.
FOR SATURDAY
Little did we know that morning
God was going to call your name.
In life we loved you dearly,
In death we do the same.
It broke our hearts to lose you,
But you did not go alone.
For part of us went with you,
The day God called you home.
You left us peaceful memories,
Your love is still our guide.
And though we cannot see you,
You are always by our side.
Our family chain is broken
And nothing seems the same.
But as God calls us one by one,
The chain will link again.
FOR SUNDAY
Right now I'm in a different place
And though we seem apart
I'm closer than I ever was
... I'm there inside your heart
I'm with you when you greet each day
And while the sun shines bright
I'm there to share the sunsets, too
... I'm with you every night
I'm with you when the times are good
To share a laugh or two,
And if a tear should start to fall
... I'll still be there for you
And when that day arrives
That we no longer are apart,
I'll smile and hold you close to me
... Forever
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Thoughts Today, Memories Forever
Angela Christopher’s Very Proud Mum
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Hello Beautiful Angel Ben
Tributes Till Monday
♥ღ♥ Somewhere in my dreams tonight
♥ღ♥ I'll see you standing there
♥ღ♥ You look at me with a smile
♥ღ♥ "Life isn't always fair"
♥ღ♥ You say you were chosen for His garden
♥ღ♥ His preciously hand picked bouquet
♥ღ♥ "God really needed me
♥ღ♥ That's why I couldn't stay"
♥ღ♥ It's said to be that angels
♥ღ♥ Are sent from above
♥ღ♥ I've always had my angel
♥ღ♥ Whose heart was filled with love
♥ღ♥ Wherever the ocean meets the sky
♥ღ♥ There will be memories of you and I
♥ღ♥ When I look up at that sky so blue
♥ღ♥ All I see are visions of you.
♥ღ♥ "While there's a heart in me
♥ღ♥ You'll be a part of me"
♥ღ♥ by Jenn Farrell ♥ღ♥
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♥ღ♥ A Bend In The Road ♥ღ♥
♥ღ♥ When we feel we have nothing left to give
and we are sure that the song has ended
When our day seems over and the shadows fall
and the darkness of night has descended
Where can we go to find the strength
to valiantly keep on trying?
Where can we find the hand that will dry
the tears that the heart is crying?
♥ღ♥ There's but one place to go and that is to God
and dropping all pretence and pride
We can pour out our problems without restraint
and gain strength with Him at our side
And together we stand at life's crossroads
and view what we think is the end
♥ღ♥ But God has a much bigger vision
and He tells us it's only a bend
For the road goes on and is smoother
and the pause in the song is a rest
And the part that's unsung and unfinished
is the sweetest and richest and best
♥ღ♥ So rest and relax and grow stronger
let go and let God share your load
Your work is not finished or ended
you've just come to a bend in the road ♥ღ♥
♥ღ♥ Unknown
♥ღ♥ Love Always Mary xxx ♥ღ♥
Good Morning Beautiful Angel Ben
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I'M SENDING A DOVE TO HEAVEN
WITH A PARCEL ON IT'S WINGS,
BE CAREFULL WHEN YOU OPEN IT
IT'S FULL OF BEAUTIFUL THING'S
INSIDE ARE A MILLION KISSES
WRAPPED UP IN A MILLION HUGS,
TO SAY HOW MUCH I LOVE YOU
AND TO SEND YOU ALL MY LOVE.
* ♥ Unknown
* ♥ Love Always Mary xxxxxxx * ♥
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Memories
Author: Mary Chandler Huff
Nite God bless Angel
Those we love remain with us...
In the whisper of the wind
In a soft rain that falls from Heaven
In each sunrise
In every single star that lights the night sky and
In every single memory we hold within our heartsxxx.
The life that I have
Is all that I have
And the life that I have
Is yours
The love that I have
Of the life that I have
Is yours and yours and yours.
A sleep I shall have
A rest I shall have
Yet death will be but a pause
For the peace of my years
In the long green grass
Will be yours and yours and yours.
♥ ☆ ♥ ☆ ♥ THANK YOU MY FRIEND ♥ ☆ ♥ ☆ ♥
♥ ☆ ♥ ☆ ♥ WITH LOVE ALWAYS LINDA.XXX ♥ ☆ ♥ ☆ ♥
Hello Beautiful Angel Ben
THANKYOU…. FOR EVERYTHING YOU ARE!
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♥ღ♥ The Gift of Happiness ♥
♥ If I had a magic wand ♥
♥ This is what I'd do ♥
♥ I'd put a dream into a box ♥
♥ And send it straight to you ♥
♥ When you get right down to it ♥
♥ There's nothing I'd rather do♥
♥Than give you a little happiness ♥
♥Because I get so much from you ♥
♥ Unknown
♥ Love Always Mary xxxxx ♥
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