| Location | Halifax |
| Age | 7 years |
| Cause of Death | Road Traffic Collision |
| Date of Birth | 22/09/1989 |
| Date of Death | 25/08/1997 |
| Visitors | 10,114 since 19/12/2007 |
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ben was knoked down and killed by a double deker bus while he was riding is bike what he only had
two days he was on live support for four days the doctors said were the bus had hit him on his head
he had a fractured skull bleeding a clot and some brain damage but thay didnt no how much but one
doctor give us hope he was a strong lad he would pull throw but on the 25 of august at half past one
in the morning is little heart had stopped his dad was with him as a nurse had told me to have a
rest in anouther room as i hadent had much rest also i was exspecting a new baby when i went into
the room there were a lot of doctors and nurses around him but one nurse said to me ben was holding
on untill i wasent there becouse he know how upset i would be thay did lots of tests on him then a
nurse called jane who we got to know very well she was lovely came to us by then a lot of our family
were there and i know by her face it wasent good news she told us that ben was brain dead and there
was nothing els thay could do could thay have our permision to switch of is life support i think it
is the hardist thing a parent as to do me and is dad held ben untill the angels came down for him it
was is brother and sisters birthday that day it is a day i can never forget sadly gareth whos
birthday it was went to be with ben 22 months after i realy think gareth is looking after ben a part
of me went with them the day god took them home i will always love and miss you both love your heart
broken mom xxxxxxxx
IM MISSING YOU SO MUCH BEN A PART OF ME WENT WITH YOU THE DAY YOU FELL ASLEEP I WILL LOVE YOU ALWAYS
HOPE YOU ARE BEEN GOOD FOR GARETH AND GRANDMA FOR ME I MISS YOU ALL SO MUCH LOVE MOM XXXXXXXX
PLEASE READ
IM SO SORRY THAT I HAVE NOT BEEN ON SITE FOR THE LAST FEW DAYS BUT IM NOT FEELING TO WELL WITH IT
BEING MY MOMS ANGEL DAY LAST THURSDAY AND BENS BIRTHDAY PLEASE DONT THINK I HAVE FORGOT ANY OF YOU
MY FRIENDS OR YOUR ANGELS I JUST CARNT COPE AT THE MOMENT AND THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR BEING THERE FOR
MY MOM GARETH AND BEN ITS NICE TO NO THAY ARE NOT LEFT ON THERE OWN GOD BLESS YOU ALL ALWAYS IM
SENDING ALL MY LOVE ALWAYS ALISON XXXXXX
HI BEN
I DONT NO REALLY HOW TO START BUT I MISS YOU SO MUCH I ONLY WISH I COULD HAVE ONE DAY WITH YOU AND
TELL YOU HOW MUCH I LOVE YOU I NEVER GOT THE CHANCE WHEN YOU HAD YOUR ACCIDENT NO ONE WOULD LET ME
NEAR YOU IN THE ROAD WHEN YOU WAS AWAKE I WANTED TO TELL YOU SO MUCH BUT I NEVER GOT THE CHANCE
PEOPLE THOUGHT THAY WAS DOING GOOD KEEPING YOU AWAY FROM ME WHY I WAS YOUR MOMMY AND I WANTERD TO
MAKE YOU BETTER IV BOUGHT YOU SOME LOVELY FLOWERS FOR YOUR GRAVE I HOPE YOU LIKE THEM IV MISSED
BEYING YOU PRESENTS ON YOUR BIRTHDAYS AND WHY DID GARETH GO AND DO WHAT HE DID AND LEAVE ME I HOPE
HES LOOKING AFTER YOU WITH GRANDMA THERES NEVER A DAY WHEN I NEVER THINK ABOUT YOU ALL I ONLY WISH I
COULD TURN BACK TIME ANYWAY BEN HAPPY BIRTHDAY AND I HOPE IT IS SPECIAL ONE IM SENDING LOADS OF LOVE
AND HUGS UP TO YOU TODAY LOVE ALWAYS MOMMY XXXXXXXXXX
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sweet dreams Ben, and thank your mam for the support she gives me. xxx
3 Poems
A LAST GOODBYE
Though happily the year began
I had to die whilst very young
It is so long since our last touch
And I miss your presence there so much
Of many things I needed to learn
So to this place God made me turn
Yet with so many things to do
I have taken this moment to speak to you
The life that was, was not to be mine
Yet within this world it has worked out fine
Where I am now I have found new friends
In a place called Heaven where the spirit ascends
Straight to this world few pass it by
And no one here can really die
Although this child you cannot see
I know you'd be so proud of me
I look forward to when I'll see you Mum
So until it is your time to come
Enjoy your life
And please don't cry;
I only came to say goodbye.
Steve Franklin Palmer
♥ ♥ HEAVEN ♥ ♥
Heaven would not be Heaven without the children there,
Playing hide and seek in pearly mists free from every pain and care.
Heaven would not be Heaven without their carefree rapture,
Scrambling through the fluffy clouds each happy moment to capture
♥ ♥
Heaven would not be Heaven without their shouts and laughter
Echoing across Elysian fields as starbursts they chase after
Heaven would not be Heaven without their joyful choir
Ringing through celestial realms sweet voices rising ever higher
♥ ♥
Heaven would not be Heaven without their radiant light,
Undimmed by earths murky shades their robes shining bright.
Heaven would not be Heaven without their smiles of pleasure,
Bearing sheaves of rainbow flowers; Children are Heaven's treasure.
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I SHALL REMEMBER YOU
I shall remember you for as long
as there are fields of snow
And there are flowers in the ground
with strength to grow.
As long as there are stars above
and moonbeams on the sea,
And just as long as there are songs
of love and memory.
I shall remember you today
and dream of you tonight,
And look for you tomorrow when
the sun begins to light.
Whatever season, month or year
this much will be the same,
The special sound of joy will be
the mention of your name.
I shall remember you for as long
as there are earth and sky.
And all eternity
may it take me to say goodbye.
Hello Beautiful Angel Ben
Tributes Till Monday
♥ If I be the first of us to die
♥ Let grief not blacken long your sky
♥ Be bold and modest in your grieving
♥ There is a change but not a leaving
♥ And just as death is part of life
♥ The dead live on forever in the living
♥ And all the gathered riches of our journey
♥ The moments shared
♥ The mysteries explored
♥ The steady layering of intimacy stored
♥ The things that make us laugh
♥ Or weep or sing
♥ The joy of sunlit snow
♥ Or first unfurling of the Spring
♥ The wordless language of look and touch
♥ The knowing
♥ Each giving and each taking
♥ These are not flowers that fade
♥ Nor trees that fall and crumble
♥ Nor are they stone
♥ For even stone
♥ Cannot the wind and rain withstand
♥ And mighty mountains peaks
♥ In time reduce to sand
♥ What we were, we are
♥ What we had, we have
♥ A conjoined past imperishably present
♥ So when you walk in the wood
♥ Where once we walked together
♥ And scan in vain the dappled bank beside you
♥ For my shadow
♥ Or pause where we always did upon the hill
♥ To gaze across the land
♥ And spotting something
♥ Reach by habit for my hand
♥ And finding none
♥ Feel sorrow start to steal upon you
♥ Be still
♥ Close your eyes
♥ Breathe
♥ Listen for my footfall in your heart
♥ I am not gone
♥ But merely walk within you
♥ Unknown
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♥ I shall remember you for as long
♥ As there are fields of snow
♥ And there are flowers in the ground
♥ With strength to grow
♥ As long as there are stars above
♥ And moonbeams on the sea
♥ And just as long as there are songs
♥ Of love and memory
♥ I shall remember you today
♥ And dreams of you tonight
♥ And look for you tomorrow when
♥ The sun begins to light
♥ Whatever season, month or year
♥ This much will be the same
♥ The only sound of joy will be
♥ The mention of your name
♥ I shall remember you for as long
♥ As there are earth and sky
♥ And all eternity
♥ May take to say good bye
♥ Love ♥ Always ♥ And ♥ Forever ♥ Mary xxx ♥
Good Morning Beautiful Angel Ben
♥ღ♥ Garden of Eden ♥ღ♥
Over some exotic rainbow
Through forest wild and free
Lives my darling Angel
Beside's some coconut tree.
The beaches are sands of gold
With palm trees lined around
There my darling Angel
Dwells safe and sound.
The sun always shines
It survives just by love
In this garden of Eden
My true love dwells above.
♥ Copyright Sharon Wheeler ♥
♥ღ♥ Love Always Mary xxxxxx ♥ღ♥
♥ ☆ ♥ ☆ ♥ GOODMORNING ANGEL ♥ ☆ ♥ ☆ ♥
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THE GATES OF HEAVEN NEVER CLOSE.
HOW MUCH I MISS YOU NO ONE KNOWS.
A SILENT PRAYER KEEPS ME IN TOUCH.
WITH YOU THAT I HAVE LOVED AND
MISS SO MUCH.
♥ ☆ ♥ ☆ ♥ FRIDAYS TRIBUTE ♥ ☆ ♥ ☆ ♥
OUR MINDS FEEL NUMB,
THE HANDS CANT WRITE,
WE'VE LOST OUR SHINING LIGHT,
I FEEL TRAPPED INSIDE THIS ORB OF PAIN,
PEER OUT-THE WORLD GOES ON THE SAME,
WITH TIME OUR TEARS MAY EASE AWAY,
BUT THE LOVE WE HAD FOR YOU WILL ALWAYS STAY,
AN ANGEL ON EARTH,NOW TAKEN FLIGHT,
TO WATCH OVER US ALL BOTH DAY AND NIGHT.
♥ ☆ ♥ ☆ ♥ SATURDAYS TRIBUTE ♥ ☆ ♥ ☆ ♥
THE RAIN MAY WASH MY PAIN AWAY
THE WIND MAY DRY MY TEARS
THE SUMMER SUN MAY HEAL MY HEART
AND TIME SUBDUE MY FEARS
BUT NOTHING IN THE WORLD BELOW
OR IN THE HEAVENS ABOVE
WILL EVER TAKE AWAY
THE PRECIOUS MEMORY OF YOUR LOVE.
♥ ☆ ♥ ☆ ♥ SUNDAYS TRIBUTE ♥ ☆ ♥ ☆ ♥
THE WINDS OF TIME CANNOT BLOW
MY LOVE AWAY...
DEEP IN MY SOUL, THIS LOVE WAS BORN.
AND WILL LAST TILL MY DYING DAY,
SANDS IN THE HOURGLASS SLOWLY FALL,
AND TIME QUICKLY RUNS ON BY...
A SIGH ESCAPES... THIS LONGING FOR YOU,
IS AS VAST AS THE EARTH AND SKY...
TILL WE MEET AGAIN, GOD GO WITH YOU,
AND GUIDE YOUR WAYWARD GAIT...
BUT KNOW IN MY HEART,MY UNDYING LOVE
SILENTY, LONGINLY,WAITS.
♥ ☆ ♥ ☆ ♥ GOOD MORNIG TO YOU ALL ♥ ☆ ♥ ☆ ♥
I HOPE THAT YOU ALL HAVE A LOVELY WEEKEND MY FRIENDS
TAKECARE AND GOD BLESS YOU ALL.
WITH LOVE AS ALWAYS LINDA.XXX
Good Morning Beautiful Angel Ben
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♥ღ♥ MY MEMORIES OF YOU... ♥ღ♥
My memories of you will last forever
I remember all the good times..
That we shared together
I think of you with beauty and grace
And I know that you are safe..
In a better place
I did not want to say goodbye
For now I'm so alone
And I sit here and cry
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My memories of you I promise to keep
I shall try and be strong
And try not to weep
I know you are all around me..
Night and day
And in my heart you will always stay
♥ღ♥
My memories of you I shall treasure
I will hold them close to my broken heart
I still love you now
Like I did from the start
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My memories of you smother me with love
For you are my precious angel
In heaven above
♥ღ♥ copyright� Jackie Thomas 22/06/09 ♥ღ♥
Love ♥ Always Mary xxxx
30TH SEPTEMBER 2009
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TO WISH YOU A GOOD AFTERNOON, WITH MY LOVE. X
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As I sit here safe in Heaven,
and watch you every day
I try to let you know with signs,
that I never went away.
I hear you when you’re laughing,
I even watch you sleep
I place my arms around you,
to calm you as you weep.
I see you wish the days away
as you beg to have me home
So I try to send you messages,
that you are not alone.
Don’t feel guilty that you have a life,
that was denied to me
Heaven is truly beautiful,
just you wait and see.
Please live your life, enjoy yourself,
just be totally free
Then I’ll know with every breath you take,
you’re taking one for me.
Author: Unknown to me
Sending love to you today Angel, along with love, thanks, and very best wishes to Alison xxx
God bless xxx Sylvia
Life is but a Stopping Place
Life is but a stopping place,
A pause in what's to be,
A resting place along the road,
to sweet eternity.
We all have different journeys,
Different paths along the way,
We all were meant to learn some things,
but never meant to stay...
Our destination is a place,
Far greater than we know.
For some the journey's quicker,
For some the journey's slow.
And when the journey finally ends,
We'll claim a great reward,
And find an everlasting peace,
Together with the lord
Author unknown
29TH SEPTEMBER 2009
GOOD MORNING SWEET ANGEL.
A loving gift of Rose's, just one can say it all,
To stand upon time's table, until the petals fall,
To draw the sun of morning, but no more to feel the dew,
On the other side of rose's,
I hurt from losing you.
On the other side of rose's with broken dreams and tears,
Not a shadow of despair, to recall, the precious years,
Alive I seen a rose in you, and feel your memory true,
On the other side of rose's,
My life I shared with you.
With petals gone to fade away, but leave sweet memories,
A velvet touch straight from the heart,
With love shown for me,
As shadows pass with setting sun,
There will forever be,
On the other side of rose's,
Your loving memory.
BY Billy M. Smallwood.
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